The day eventually had to come – everything comes to an end whether we like it or not. As we grow older many things change and become different chapters of life that we have to adapt to. During childhood, many people play sports either because their parents make them or just for fun and socialization. However, those who continue to play sports throughout their high school and potentially college careers do it because the game becomes a special part of who they are.
Involvement in sports can become a large part of a student’s identity, allowing them a space to learn more about themselves and their strengths and weaknesses, both physically and mentally. So when that comes to an end, either from injury or age, some become lost, fearing they’ll lose part of who they are.
Through either a career ending injury, or inability to play at the collegiate level, student-athletes lose the title of being an athlete. Finding a new outlet can be challenging given the fact that they’ve had such a prominent singular one for so long. This new chapter of life can include new hobbies, interests, and new routines. Sports come along with commitment and give athletes the structure and discipline that many children and young adults need in order to stay focused and on track. So, when this routine no longer exists, athletes have to adapt to a different kind of structured lifestyle.
Athletes form strong emotional attachments to their sport after playing it for so many years, making it hard to let go. The countless memories they’ve made both on and off the field are unforgettable. Between the laughter, frustration, and even sometimes tears, the relationships built between their coaches and teammates become more like family. Being involved in this tight-knit community or team is truly like no other.
Along with memories and relationships, athletes thrive of of achievements both as a team and individually. Achieving great success or accomplishing a common goal allows student-athlete to be proud and gain confidence in themself to do more. Therefore, losing what makes them feel successful could become an unfortunate burden, especially mentally. Sports are more than just a physical game. The adrenaline and the mental focus required when playing sports create a powerful attachment that can’t easily be replaced.
Sports give children a sense of purpose which is why they become so attached. Some feel guilty stopping something that has brought them so much joy and fulfillment. Sports provide opportunities for learning and truly make student-athletes who they are today. No one or anything can prepare you to truly accept the fact that it’s over.
